When you find your spouse is cheating you will probably sink into melancholy. You will be immersed in a sense of betrayal. All the things around you will appear to fade out of view. However you cannot put the whole blame on the cheating spouse!

Women cheat only when their emotional needs are not fulfilled but in most of the cases not due to physical lust. There may be some exceptions but the main reason is loneliness. If they are left alone they do not know what to do and seek out affairs outside.

Cheating women, when caught, often say that they cheat as their husbands do not give much time to them. In many families the husband is the sole bread winner and so has to spend all his time at work. This is particularly the case when the husband is self employed.