Did you just suffer a major break and need her back? These are the 5 keys to beginning the method of getting your fiance back fast.
Purge
After a split it is easy to either talk too much about it or not talk about it in any way. Neither of these is healthy. Write it all down or talk it out with one individual (not your ex) so you can just get everything out. Then you're done and it's time to leave it alone. Don't dwell anymore.
Logic Will Not Save You
First, don't reason with yourself. If you don't understand why she broke up with you at this time, you probably will not. Sometimes the reason does not sound correct. Sometimes it is based solely on something she felt, which is something no-one else can ever understand. You do not have to grasp it. It's what it is so don't spend plenty of time making an attempt to figure out a solution or pondering what you might have done in a different way. You are squandering your time and losing her each second.
Further, Don't Attempt to Reason With Her.
I'm of the opinion a common myth about getting women back is that we will be able to reason with them or appeal to their feelings and this just isn't true. Yes, they are emotional and over-analyzing creatures, but when it comes to matters of the heart they can also be impulsive. Like I said, we won't always understand what's going on in somebody's head or heart, but most likely it isn't based in logic.
Be Clear and Then Disappear
First it's important for you to know that your split, irrespective of what your situation is, is a good thing. You've got an issue you want to work out or maybe somebody just needs to stop taking the other person for granted. Even if you don't desire to get broken up, your relationship will stronger for it when she comes running back.
You have to be clear about what you need. You also must agree with the breakup. You must do this in a short and concise hand written letter or probably a telephone call, not a mail or text. You can say you continue to have feelings for the individual, but you need to also say that breaking up is for the best. Agreeing with the break up is vital. Ensure your letter is SHORT, calm, and sound. The purpose is to be completely clear and to allow them to go. If you don't allow them to go (in a mature way) how can they come back?
Avoid Any and all Social Technology
After your one contact it's time to disappear. Ladies love a puzzle and they love what they can't have. Vanish. I'm telling you it will work.
Do not text and do not call her. Take her out of your phone for the moment if you've got to. Give her space. She will appreciate that you respected her wishes and then wonder what you're up to! Do not check her facebook or twitter, it'll make you need to contact her.
Focus on You
Be around others you like. Find things worth doing that you like. And don't do any of this to better yourself to get her back. Do it for you. Girls need independent, strong men. So concentrate on being the best person you can be, for yourself. She'll see.
Brandon knows the score. For more on how to get your girlfriend back, check out his website at www.girlfriendbacktips.com and sign up for his free relationship advice newsletter.