If you are reading this, you are struggling over losing a relationship and have been wondering "what can I do to get my girlfriend back"?
It is important when you need someone back to give them the space they need for a little while. This can be hard, but it is the key to getting her back. This is straightforward to see when you begin to understand what, precisely, it is that ladies desire and how you can capitalize on that to get your girlfriend back.
My sister and I have spoken plenty about our individual splits as we've grown up together and tried to aid others. It's definitely useful to have a woman's point of view when you are handling girls. And this info is right from the horse's (woman's) mouth.
Ladies want 2 straightforward things:
To Feel Safe
-Women want men who can look after them (even when they do not need to be sorted.)
-They need men who can protect them. These are independent men who stand up for themselves to other people and don't allow anyone to make them feel inferior (this is good for you, too!).
-Women feel safe when they know they're being was truthful. Sincerity is essential.
-Women get bored. If you are continually agreeing with or following a girl she's going to get bored.
-Stand up for yourself. A healthy quantity of pride and self confidence are important. Don't always say yes to her. Women like backbones. You know how your mates make fun of you for being whipped? Yep, the girls are ridiculing you too.
-A lot of guys think (it's in all the sitcoms) ladies just need you to do whatever they want, but that's not true . It's great to take her wants and needs into account. However , always saying yes and putting her before the rest including your own interests, is uninviting and can come across as passive, insecure, and needy. It also makes you look like a comparatively hardly interesting person if she is the most important thing in your universe. Girls don't find themselves that fascinating. Have your own interests. Do your thing. See how she fits in.
-Women frequently desire what they can not have. This is as those things have a puzzle; they don't seem to be clear. They are a challenge.
So what does this mean for getting my girlfriend back, you ask?
First, it suggests be sincere. If you did something that left the relationship crumbling and you're sorry, say sorry. If there's one thing you just have to say, say it.
2nd, and this part can be tougher, it implies you need to BE a challenge. Be something she can't have. Be an independent, powerful man who doesn't need her. Let me be clear though, sleeping around isn't being strong. In reality many girls view that as a little pathetic. They know you are sleeping around to either ease your wounded ego or to make her jealous... Not Attractive. And, not healthy for you because pointless sex often make a hole left by a relationship feel even emptier. What I say is that after you've been sincere, go, pursue things you like and have fun with your friends. Don't be fearful of dating other girls, but don't sleep around. Don't call her or text her. If she knows you are always moping over her where's the puzzle she is dying for?
Brandon's been there and wants to help. If you've been wondering how to get your girlfriend back, check out his website at www.girlfriendbacktips.com and sign up for his free relationship advice newsletter.