We need to build up our confidence from time to time. How we feel about ourselves has a lot to do with feeling confident. To feel confident, we should have this feeling that we can achieve the goals we have set for ourselves.

Everyone has been gifted with one or the other talent. To think like a winner we must feel confident that we are good in these skills. Below are a few ways given to train yourself to think like a winner:

Prepare a “to-do” list for yourself. Never complain that you have tried something before and that it did not work. It is this list that can make you feel like a winner. Always make a list that is fun and easy to get done so that it makes you feel like a winner. The list can be utterly easy too so that even after doing these small jobs; a confidence is developed in you.

It is more of a self-conditioning list. When at the end of the day you see all the check marks on your “to-do” list, it makes you feel that you have had a productive day. You gain confidence as you find out your abilities of having things get done.

You come to think yourself as a winner after having done the things you have listed on your fun list. In case you have forgotten to make a list at the beginning of the day, make a list of the things you have done in that day and at the end of it, mark them off.

This fun “to-do” list of yours may sound as a silly technique to build up self confidence, but remember that the subconscious part of our mind doesn’t bother what is real and what is imaginary. All that matters to that part of your mind is that you are accomplishing something every day by making sure you have done everything that you have listed. Slowly and gradually you will notice a change in your confidence level. As it starts to mount, add up some real tasks in your list and do them with the same ‘feel-good’ attitude.

As you are just beginning, don’t add too many tasks. Disguise your real tasks that you want to achieve with the easy ones. Feeling good is an important element in building up of confidence so even these small accomplishments help boost your confidence immensely. If you know someone who is a very confident person, then look up to them. They are always smiling. So have fun in your life and enjoy it. It will definitely make you feel like a winner.