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7 Stages Of Online Dating (Part 2)

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You learned the first 3 stages of online dating in the first part of this two part article. Now onto the final stages 4-7.

 

Stage 4

 

In this stage, you exchange your MSN, AOL, Yahoo, or your personal Instant Messenger addresses so you can talk together in real time with each other.

 

What does this stage mean? Plenty! Now, we're starting to get somewhere and see how the person's sense of humor is, personality, how sensitive they are, how intelligent they are, and they're basically on the spot with you.

 

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Before, when you exchanged emails with them thru the dating site or thru personal email, it was NOT in real time. Meaning that person could've had to read your email 5 times to actually understand or get it, then ask some of their friends how to respond back to it, and it could take them days or even weeks to respond.

 

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Now, in this 4th stage, the chemistry (or lack of it) starts to show its ugly head. Because now it's in real time, so you can see how slow or quick-witted they are. Are they selfish? Do they talk only about themselves or about you? Do they get your jokes? Do they get offended easily, or are they very sensitive? Are they open sexually and like to talk about their own experiences, likes/dislikes, and their own sexuality.

 

Tip! Honesty is essential to growing and developing your online dating relationship.

Plus they can see when you're online or not and can IM you whenever they want!! How many times do you get annoying pop windows from people IMing you that you don't know? I know I do! Well, it could be that person you gave it to but you found out they weren't mister or misses right!

 

Stage 5

 

In this stage, you exchange phone numbers and now the offline relationship goes offline, and they can contact you 24/7 even when you're not on your computer.

 

Tip! Set realistic goals and be positive, assured, and a complete person. Don't let online dating be the only interest in life.

What does this stage mean? It's big. Now, you can call them anytime you want or vice versa when they're drunk, happy, mad, stressed out, depressed, etc. You finally get to hear what they sound like which could be a good or bad thing. It proves to each of you that you're both real and actually the gender you claimed to be! Seriously, the stories I have heard about guys and gals pretending to be of the opposite sex. Messed up crap, I tell you!

 

They can now call you ten times a day and also text you a dozen more! If things get ugly, changing your phone number is one huge pain in the butt and inconvenience-at least it would be for me. It would be catastrophic if, as a business owner, you use your cell phone as your office line, so don't give that out easily.

Tip! Don't be afraid to use online dating. If the first person you contact isn't interested, keep trying as the next contact may be the one.

 

Side Note: There could be another stage in between 5 and 6 for exchanging mailing addresses if one or both of you wanted to send a card or something to each other. Now you're telling that person exactly where you live so, again, big step if you're a woman for safety reasons.

 

Stage 6

 

In this stage, both of you or one of you gets on webcam for the other person to see you in real time and finally see it's a real live person.

 

Tip! Online daters should protect their identity. One of the greatest things about online dating is that it offers participants anonymity.

What does this mean? Almost Everything! You now know the pictures they had on their profile weren't fake or outdated. It proves that someone else wasn't on the phone talking to you before or on some other person's phone number.

 

It started out as an online and computer relationship with no living face to go with it and now you can see them smile, laugh, giggle, squirm, sneeze, cough, burp, cry, fidget, get mad, see what kind of clothes they wear, what their room looks like, see their animals or kids if they have any, and much more. It finally humanizes online dating and makes it all worth it and real.

 

Tip! Find a service that you are comfortable with. This should never be a problem since there are so many online dating sites available.

If you don't have a webcam go get one. The best webcam in the world is the Logitech Orbitz webcam. I have it, because I use it for business a lot. You can get it at Best Buy or Circuit City for like $125 or buy it online for like $100, plus a cheap webcam you can get now for like $40 so no excuses ok.

 

If you're in a relationship or want to try really to get to know someone from a distance and possibly start a long distance relationship, then this is a must. I know from a lot of experience. Long term relationships can work (still a minority percentage) but webcam is the only way, because you forget kind of what that person looks like even with pictures, and I can't stress that enough.

 

Tip! Don't think an online dating site will have your perfect date today, this month, even this year. People come and go a lot at these dating sites.

Best advice, when guys ask and they will if you have a webcam be choosy who you say yes to, ok. Only say yes after you get to know them some and you feel comfortable. Many guys that are just looking for free porn or strip show will ask you that in an email or instant chat right away which you may have noticed.

 

Tip! Don't expect only one online dating site to have your perfect mate.

Stage 7

 

In this, the final stage, you finally meet in person either meeting at a bar, coffee shop, restaurant, club, or wherever if you meet. If it's long distance-which has been mostly my own personal experience then you need to decide on who's flying or driving to see who and the arrangements.

 

What does this mean? Everything! Webcams don't always give you the best and most realistic images of a person. They wont show you if the person has a bad complexion, has acne, how hairy they are, has lots of freckles or moles (not a bad thing just saying), bad teeth, bad hair, or bad skin.

 

You're also going to find out-which you can't from webcam-how they taste, how soft their lips are, how they feel, how soft their skin is, how warm or cold their body is, how they smell, if they have bad breath or good breath, how soft their hair is, and how gorgeous their eyes and face really are.

 

Tip! And the most important of all online dating tips: Don't expect ANY dating site to find you a man. Dating sites can be helpful, but they are just one venue for meeting possible dates and mates.

After all the talk online and on the phone, you will also finally get to see their actions in person. For example, if a man says that he is a gentleman, does he really open every door and car door for you always?

 

Does he order for you, but ask you first what you're going to get?

 

Does he pay for everything?

 

Are they really as affectionate as they say in public or private?

 

Do they dress sharp like they say?

 

Do they have manners? Do they pay attention to you when you're talking?

 

Do they just stare at your body?

 

Do they only talk about themselves?

 

Do they really have their own house or apartment?

 

Tip! Be social. Whether you are a social person or not, the mere fact that you seek connectivity through online dating proves that you do yearn or some social interaction.

Do they have the car they say they did?

 

If you understand fully and follow these simple steps, it will make the online dating and meeting experience much more enjoyable I promise. Take it from someone that has been on more online dating sites (35 and counting) then anyone in the world.

 

Passionate Ben is an online dating and relationship researcher who has been on more online dating websites than ANYONE in the world. 35 different dating websites! Ben bridges the gap with his online radio talk show, infamous blogs, public speaking, and future books in an unconventional, funny, and common sense approach. For a limited time you can download the FREE report called, "Open Your Eyes Already About Online Dating" at http://www.passionateben.com

 

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