Tell Me ABout Violent Relationships
Violent relationships can occur at many levels form subtle forms of abuse to life threatening ones, under no circumstances should anyone tolerate any form of abuse and violence in relationships. Anyone can fall in to violent relationship because the outward propensity towards violence maybe lacking in most people, however some tall tale signs maybe lurking beneath. If you’re in a relationship it is always better to be on guard if certain behavior is present. One of the most common signs is an extremely jealous and possessive partner, trust should be one of the key tenets of any relationship, therefore one should not mistake extreme jealousy as a sign of love rather it is a sign of insecurity and mistrust in you and your partner, and this in turn could result in a violent relationship. If your partner threatens you or your family or your friends, restricts your freedom, to be with your loved ones, starts blaming other people for their violent out bursts and manhandles you or intimidates you it is always better to trust your instincts in such a scenario. These are ominous portents of possible violent relationships.
Physical violence is easier to detect, however emotional abuse such as name calling, insulting you in public or private to intentionally bring out a low self esteem in you etc, can cause deep trauma and emotionally and physically and since there are no out ward signs of it or due to the embarrassing nature of the ordeal people tend to bottle such abuse, which in turn can cause seriously affect your mental well being. Acting out against violent relationships is very crucial, in emotional abuse if you do not fight back it may aggravate or at times if you do it may get physically abusive as well, therefore this is a no win situation the best you can do for yourself is to get out of the relationship.
After a violent outburst a reaction of remorse sets in, they may seem to be extremely apologetic and constantly seeking your forgiveness, however this behavior cannot be trusted, the violence may escalate with time and those who choose to stay in violent relationships may be jeopardizing their lives hoping that things will get better, in most cases it does not.Violent relationships should not be endured due to any reason, if your dependent on your partner or suffer from low self esteem it is important to divulge to a trusted family member or a friend and gain their support to leave a troubled relationship.
If you do not have worthwhile support immediately seek the authority of the police or relevant authorities. Endurance is not a cure for violent relationships, one has to develop a sense of courage, self esteem to understand that he or she deserves better and move away from such violent relationships, which can lead to life threatening and psychological conditions in you or any children involved.
