Why Guys Cheat
It seems to be a universal issue with guys when it comes to cheating. They just can’t seem to fight off temptation. For some guys, it doesn’t even matter what form the temptation comes in, either. If it’s “different” then they’re pants come off. It’s really like some of them simply cannot control themselves. Yet, when it comes to their wives and girlfriends, these same men would be MOST upset if they were cheated on by their women. They really DO have a double standard when it comes to cheating.
While there are some of the most standard excuses that men give the “other women” for cheating on their wives, rarely are any of them true. You’ve probably heard of them yourself. Things like “Oh my wife doesn’t understand me,” “My wife doesn’t like sex,” “We got married too young and grew apart,” or “We’re just staying together for the kids” 1are all so typical that it’s almost laughable that men still use them. What’s worse is that many women are still buying them.
In fact, the existence of too many willing women is one of the major factors in why men cheat. There are seriously too many women that simply don’t care about other people’s promises to each other. Actually, many of these women will actively pursue men that they want to have sex with until they get what they’re after. This is a rather a double edged sword, though. Willing women in pursuit of them doesn’t give men an excuse to cheat. These men should either say no or end their relationships so that they’re free to have sex with anyone they want. On the other hand, if there weren’t so many willing women, there might be fewer cheating men.
Speaking of temptation, too many women get a bit too relaxed once they’ve settled into a relationship or marriage. They stop trying to look enticing and tempting to their men, which does lower the defenses of these men. The men that are uninterested in cheating are the very ones that believe the motto of “Why go out for hamburger when you’ve got steak at home?” Don’t stop taking care of yourself just because you’ve “landed” your man or he might start looking at someone else who DOES take care of herself.
Careers and children often drive a bit of a wedge between couples. When a couple isn’t relating and communicating with each other, romance can become a thing of the past. You must talk about other things besides work, who’s going to be picking up the kids, and who’s going to pick up dinner. There needs to be some excitement, and you just may have to make arrangements for the two of you to rekindle that excitement. Men that feel neglected and/or bored are easy prey when it comes to willing women.
Of course, many men cheat because they’re no longer in love with their wives or girlfriends and just don’t have the courage to leave. Cheating seems to be easier for them. If this is your situation, however, you’ll know the truth soon enough.
Men will always come up with their own excuses for cheating but, in the end, there IS no excuse. The simple truth of the matter is if you’re not happy in a relationship, then get out of it. Cheating is not only hurtful and damaging, it’s also very disrespectful.
